Question #15

What’s something you know you do differently than most people?

A part of me wants to say "hang out with family" but that is not something that I do differently but something that my whole family does that is out of the norm as we actually enjoying spending time with one another. So I am trying to think of something that just I do that is distinctive of me.

hmmm... this is a tough one.

Mainly I think because if it is something that I do its "normal" for me and so I don't think of it as being different.

Well one thing I can think of off hand is that my body temp runs a bit hotter than most people especially at night. Xav used to say that sleeping next to me was like curling up next to a furnace. I think this is a side effect of my bad thyroid but I am not 100% sure. Due to this I tend to keep the bedroom windows open even in the winter time, if I am hot at night I can't sleep.

I also tend to do for people for the simple reason that I think it will make them happy. I don't stop to think about the effect it will have for me or the cost. Things just tend to pop into my head "oh this will make so and so happy" and so I buy it or do it. The downfall of this trait is that I tend to expect others to act in a similar manner. Do things with out being asked because it will make me/others happy with no reward for themselves and it doesn't' happen because people are primarily selfish creatures. Then I get all sad and disappointed in them for not having completed some task when in reality I never actually asked them do it I just expected them to do it on their own because I would have done it for them.

I think this is a trait that others exhibit as well but not often. Most often you see selfishness and people being just to lazy to do for others with nothing in return for them.

Until Next Time


XOXO~ Kat